So, I am less than 2 weeks away from my wedding and my family is driving me mental!
The aunt I originally posted about has gone way off the deep end. Over the past few months I have tried numerous times to sit down and talk to her. She has ignored me, hung up on me, invited me to her house for a bbq and when I told her I could only come for the afternoon because I had another party to attend....she called me 2 days before and told me not to bother coming and hung up on me.
She then wrote me an e-mail telling me saying "as you know from past family history we have cut people off for years and went on to lives our lives very nicely" she also said "you have turned in to someone I dont even know...and don't even like".
I told her that she is not cutting me off but cutting herself off...my life will continue whether she is a part of it or not....
I heard nothing since...that was in May.
This past weekend we had our jack and jill. Since we had to legally get married here (in Ontario) before we leave, we decided it would be fun to have a civil ceremony to surprise our guests. It was very informal (hubby wore a t shirt with a tuxedo print on it lol) and I wore a fun novelty veil for the ceremony. We had a great dinner, played some games and then surprised our guests (120 ppl) with the ceremony! then we went on with the jack and jill. in no way, shape or form was this a wedding. Our guests loved it and it really made the party awesome!
until the next morning......
I get a txt from the aunt saying "THANKS!!!!!" (twice)
another from another relative saying "people are very upset with you...."
let me say that EVERYONE in my family knew about the jack and jill and not a single person replied.....
whats that saying "you snooze, you lose"
I'm getting awful msg's from family members. One is even insisting that the jack and jill was my wedding and that i'm being selfish by having people spend money to go to Jamaica (which they claim is now my honeymoon)
I hate when people base their story of assumptions....use the facts,
There was no ring exchange, no wedding gown, no first dance....nothing but a few words and signing of the legal documents.
Its not my fault that they decided to "cut me off".