I would definitely not be chasing anyone either.
Originally Posted by Sehausle
Well I learned two lessons from this: 1) SO glad I kept my invites on the inexpensive side. I loved Vistaprint because I was able to customize, they came out gorgeous (high quality paper), and I spent under $100 for everything (this included a few other things too). 2) I will not be the bride who calls everyone. If you want to come to my wedding - wonderful! If not, I will not chase you down. I am leaving it fairly open for those 4 guests, but no others LOL.
You can simplify ...but you have to have a strong resolve lol This WILL test your patience from time to time.