This a bit foreign to me. I'm 45 my fiance is 60, 2nd wedding for both. we both have adult children as well as a 15yr old daughter and a 9yr old son. Obviously things need to a bit different for us. All I know is we want to be married on a beach, we have no date, and not in a rush. Thats all I got! I have no idea where to even begin, I even just stumbled ontop this site. Any advice will be much appreciated.