So totally in the same boat. My wedding is May 3, 2013 and I did all the same stressing you are doing. Research, research, research girl and read tons of post from here. I got alot of my ideas from post right here that saved me lots of $$. I made my std, invites and rsvp and everyone loved them. Now it's the waiting game. We started with a 5K budget but my honey booboo has a big mouth and invited additional people so I'm up to 7K because of the added guest. So read on and get inspired!! It will all work out fine. Good luck!