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#71 LadyP

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    Posted 06 October 2007 - 12:50 PM

    my prayers are with you and reggie. i am so sorry for your lost. if there is anything i can do let me know

    #72 REBECCA

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      Posted 06 October 2007 - 01:40 PM

      Oh Heidi,
      I know you have heard this a million times since yesterday, but I am so sorry for your loss. Please dont let this discourage you. I know it is difficult to think that at the moment, but it will happen for you guys.

      As you can see with all of the posts, you have an incredible support system on the forum, we are here for you.

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      #73 MikkiStreak

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        Posted 06 October 2007 - 02:38 PM

        What Makes A Mother?
        I thought of you and closed my eyes
        and prayed to God today
        I asked "What makes a Mother?"
        and I know I heard Him say
        "A Mother has a baby"
        This we know is true
        "But, God, can you be a Mother
        When your baby's not with you?"
        "Yes, you can" He replied
        With confidence in His voice
        "I give many women babies
        When they leave is not their choice
        Some I send for a lifetime
        And others for a day
        And some I send to feel your womb
        But there's no need to stay"
        "I just don't understand this, God
        I want my baby here"
        He took a breath and cleared His throat
        And then I saw a tear
        "I wish that I could show you
        What your child is doing today
        If you could see your child smile
        With other children and say
        'We go to Earth to learn our lessons
        Of love and life and fear
        My Mommy loved me oh so much
        I got to come straight here.
        I feel so lucky to have a Mom
        Who had so much love for me
        I learned my lesson very quickly
        My Mommy set me free
        I miss my Mommy oh so much
        But I visit her each day
        When she goes to sleep
        On her pillow's where I lay
        I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
        And whisper in her ear
        Mommy, don't be sad today
        I'm your baby and I'm here'
        "So you see my dear sweet one
        Your children are okay
        Your babies are in My home
        And this is where they'll stay
        They'll wait for you with Me
        Until our lesson is through
        And on the day that you come home
        They'll be at the gates for you
        So now you see what makes a Mother
        It's the feeling in your heart
        It's the love you had so much of
        Right from the very start
        Though some on Earth may not realize
        you are a Mother
        Until their time is done
        They'll be up here with Me one day
        And know you're the best one!"
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        #74 Sarah


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          Posted 06 October 2007 - 02:43 PM

          Oh Maria, that is beautiful. I'm crying...

          #75 CourtneyV

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            Posted 06 October 2007 - 02:43 PM

            Oh Heidi, I'm so so sorry for you and Reggie. This is so unfair. We're here for you whenever you need us.
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            #76 Christine

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            Posted 06 October 2007 - 02:51 PM

            Maria, I couldn't even get through that without crying, that is beautiful.
            Christine + Will (married 7/20/07) + Ainsleigh (born 6/25/08) + Nolan (born 11/9/10) + Delaney (born 12/31/13) = One Very Happy Family!

            #77 Spazz

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              Posted 06 October 2007 - 02:52 PM

              Maria, that is such a beautiful poem...thanks for posting!

              #78 dragonfly

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                Posted 06 October 2007 - 03:26 PM

                Heidi, with sorrow in my heart, I am so sorry...

                #79 NABUMBAH

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                  Posted 06 October 2007 - 03:53 PM

                  so sorry

                  #80 Sharonie

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                    Posted 06 October 2007 - 04:18 PM

                    Heidi, my heart goes out to you and Reggie! Be strong and know you WILL have beatufiful babies in the future. You will be in my prayers...

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