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4 Days to go and DRAMA!!!!

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#1 Jerzzygirl

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    Posted 03 October 2007 - 07:57 PM

    So we leave in a few days and I told you girls all along that my future inlaws have been against us getting married outside of a church all this time. They have made things hard and we never gave in on "our" dream wedding. Well after all these months of them really not talking to us, blowing us off and making us feel bad they called today to find out what hotel we are staying at. Chris thought that was weird and a little while later his dad called to say, we decided to go to your wedding but your hotel is sold out so we are staying at the sunset grande..... Sooooo now they are going... they "talked" to their priests and decided to go. Well guess I need to add them to the guest list at the front desk so they can get on property but I did read a review awhile back that said some of there guests were not allowed on property and they missed the wedding. Could you imagine?? OMG Maybe I will go in my wedding dress up to the gate on the road to make sure they have there names and wait for them to get in...lol And I thought I was stressed a few weeks ago, this just about puts me over the edge...lol

    #2 A10CalGal

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      Posted 03 October 2007 - 08:22 PM

      They called today - 9 days before your wedding - to say they are coming?? WTF? Whatever you do, do not allow yourself to be stressed by any of their last minute antics. Just don't do it! Best of luck girlfriend!

      #3 TammyB

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        Posted 03 October 2007 - 08:26 PM

        Well for what it's worth, better late then never. Right? I didn't have "any" family at our wedding so even if it was the day before we left I found out someone was going I would have figured a way to make it work. Try not to stress over it and I'm happy to hear they came around and will be with you on one of the most important days of your lives.

        #4 Christine

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        Posted 03 October 2007 - 08:35 PM

        um you will not be going to let them in, someone else needs to be given that job, you and your soon to be hubby need to relax and enjoy your day
        Christine + Will (married 7/20/07) + Ainsleigh (born 6/25/08) + Nolan (born 11/9/10) + Delaney (born 12/31/13) = One Very Happy Family!

        #5 edna

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          Posted 03 October 2007 - 08:41 PM

          Dont stress, everything will be just as you wanted and planned!!! and as Tammy said, later than never, think when the days have passed and you start remembering about the wedding in the future years , having them there will be a joy moment....


          #6 Spazz

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            Posted 03 October 2007 - 08:44 PM

            I'm glad they decided to come, even if it is such late notice. Try not to stress over it and DEFINITELY do not go wait at the gate in your dress!

            #7 Jerzzygirl

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              Posted 03 October 2007 - 09:03 PM

              Yep 9 days before... Thanks for the support I am trying to just relax.. On the other hand I am very happy that they decided to go. It means a lot to us.

              #8 Sharonie

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                Posted 03 October 2007 - 09:06 PM

                Don't get stressed out over something like this girl. It is your wedding you should be enjoying it. Just hand the list of the names to the WC and ask her to make sure everyone gets into the property. If you're still worried, ask the guests not staying at Riu to get to the resort at certain time and have someone designated (like BM or GM) to work with resort to get them in. Happy wedding!!!

                #9 StephanieMN

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                  Posted 03 October 2007 - 09:22 PM

                  Glad they are coming but bummer they waited this long. I uses to work at a church and was surprised to hear how strict some people are about where weddings are held. God goes to the beach too!

                  #10 trisha0612

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                    Posted 03 October 2007 - 09:30 PM

                    Don't get stressed out! They had all the time in the world for this decision...now it's YOUR time.....not theirs!
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