Are any of you fighting more with your fiance now that you're engaged than you ever did before you were engaged??
So my fiance and I have had the most amazing 2 years together. It's been unreal at times how loving, secure, and right it feels. Simply put we just clicked right away and from the moment it started I knew we were going somewhere. So when he got down on a knee and asked me that important question, I didn't have any doubt in my mind, of course I said yes, and couldn't wait to officially start our lives together.
...Then came wedding planning!!! UGH! I knew it would be hard, I've seen the Bridezilla shows and heard stories from friends. But I thought destination wedding planning would be less stressful than a wedding in the states, I had NO idea things would be so hard at times. The guilt over asking friends/family to travel. Dealing with "Caribbean time". Friends/family that make me feel selfish for doing this. It's all adding up and it's making me stressed out or anxious all the time - and I'm usually a low key person. I mean, the stress even has me posting on FORUMS and asking STRANGERS for advice?? This isn't me!
Anyway I don't know what's happened to us?? We used to be on the same page, we used to understand each other, talk with respect to each other, be a team...and now, I feel like this wedding planning is pushing us farther apart. And no, I'm not a crazy bridezilla, just dealing with more stress, he's dealing with more stress, etc.
I just want to marry him, to tell him I love him enough to commit to him forever. And I hate all the other bullshit involved.
Anyone else feel this way?