Originally Posted by tyrebride2b2013
I also want to wait until booked but don't want to wait too long either. I guess I will go ahead and ask within the next month or two.
I do have a dilema. His BM is his best friend like a brother to him. He was married two years ago and ofcourse FI was his BM. I was not in the wedding his wife and him are the godparents to our children. We are friends but they were friends first they all grew up together they reference each other as brothers and sister. They are all assuming that she is a BM however I had no intentions of making her one now I don't know what to do. Am wrong to not ask her? Or do I just bite the bullet and ask her?
Oh, that's so awkward. Who in the world assumes that they'll be a bridesmaid? How many bridesmaids had you intended to ask? Perhaps you could put if off to wanting even numbers or something like that. Or maybe you could say that you didn't want to make both her and her husband incur the extra costs associated with being in the wedding party?