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Ok! I'd Ike to propose something. We obviously are becoming a little group here and I'm embarrassed to say I can't remember everyone's dates and locations. Now that I'm getting to know u guys. Could you all post your wedding date and location. And what city u live in? That way ill take a pic of it on my iPad . I'm too lazy to keep referring to everyone's profiles. Lol
I'm Jalitza March 8 2014 Barcelo Bavaro Palace Deluxe Punta Cana, DR

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Is anyone else slightly frustrated with their FI lack of sense of urgency . Mine wants to be let in on everything but I feel like he's mentally Pinteresting everything. 1 yr and 3 monthsnisnan eternity away so he's like yeah yeah " save the dates " those are nice for when we are ready to send them . Aughhhhhh
I would like to say that mine has been like that ever since we started planning a wedding.... however, he is always like that HA! I have to either wait til he is in the mood to talk or trick him into listen to me when I want to ask him something and he isn't in the mood. Pouting works - but can't do it all the time cause that just annoys him HAHA One day when he was giving me the "yeah yeah yeah" I stopped talking - waiting a minute then said "do you want me to just plan everything by myself so I don't have to be bothered with trying to talk to you and get your opinion - cause that would be easier for me OR do you want to have a say in Your wedding - I just don't want to bother you if I don't have to" I was sure to say this with no attitude so he didn't get defensive. his reply "I want to be involved!" so I told him fine and that I will run things by him before I proceed but if he doesn't have time to listen I will just move on in whatever way I want...... he hasn't given me the "yeah yeah yeah" since. They need to feel like it was their idea - so I know he thinks I ask him because he told me he wants to be involved.... I know he still isn't always listening.. so if I need to I'll pout ;) He did actually ask me one day "don't you have friends to talk to about this stuff" So if yours says that tell him YES - BDW so don't bother me while I'm on in.. even if it is "all the time" HAHAH

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I would like to say that mine has been like that ever since we started planning a wedding.... however, he is always like that HA! I have to either wait til he is in the mood to talk or trick him into listen to me when I want to ask him something and he isn't in the mood. Pouting works - but can't do it all the time cause that just annoys him HAHA One day when he was giving me the "yeah yeah yeah" I stopped talking - waiting a minute then said "do you want me to just plan everything by myself so I don't have to be bothered with trying to talk to you and get your opinion - cause that would be easier for me OR do you want to have a say in Your wedding - I just don't want to bother you if I don't have to" I was sure to say this with no attitude so he didn't get defensive. his reply "I want to be involved!" so I told him fine and that I will run things by him before I proceed but if he doesn't have time to listen I will just move on in whatever way I want...... he hasn't given me the "yeah yeah yeah" since. They need to feel like it was their idea - so I know he thinks I ask him because he told me he wants to be involved.... I know he still isn't always listening.. so if I need to I'll pout ;) He did actually ask me one day "don't you have friends to talk to about this stuff" So if yours says that tell him YES - BDW so don't bother me while I'm on in.. even if it is "all the time" HAHAH
He's actually waaaaaaay more involved than that. Remember he wants to have the wedding I want to elope. Hahaha. He's super picky on photography and is all like " I need to read and look up all the djs" . Blah blah. " I like those passport invites" . Probably wants to be more involved than I'd like... But, everything is for the future. I'm like.. hELLOOO. We need to give ppl the heads up. Especially with a 110 person invite list. :0(

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I would like to say that mine has been like that ever since we started planning a wedding.... however, he is always like that HA! I have to either wait til he is in the mood to talk or trick him into listen to me when I want to ask him something and he isn't in the mood. Pouting works - but can't do it all the time cause that just annoys him HAHA One day when he was giving me the "yeah yeah yeah" I stopped talking - waiting a minute then said "do you want me to just plan everything by myself so I don't have to be bothered with trying to talk to you and get your opinion - cause that would be easier for me OR do you want to have a say in Your wedding - I just don't want to bother you if I don't have to" I was sure to say this with no attitude so he didn't get defensive. his reply "I want to be involved!" so I told him fine and that I will run things by him before I proceed but if he doesn't have time to listen I will just move on in whatever way I want...... he hasn't given me the "yeah yeah yeah" since. They need to feel like it was their idea - so I know he thinks I ask him because he told me he wants to be involved.... I know he still isn't always listening.. so if I need to I'll pout ;) He did actually ask me one day "don't you have friends to talk to about this stuff" So if yours says that tell him YES - BDW so don't bother me while I'm on in.. even if it is "all the time" HAHAH
Problem is we are house hunting too. So he's all about that right now.

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Problem is we are house hunting too. So he's all about that right now.
He's in bed showing me houses , I'm in bed showing him linen colors . Haaaa

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Problem is we are house hunting too. So he's all about that right now.
Rayn! Did you just get upgrades on here or just change your picture?

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He's actually waaaaaaay more involved than that. Remember he wants to have the wedding I want to elope. Hahaha. He's super picky on photography and is all like " I need to read and look up all the djs" . Blah blah. " I like those passport invites" . Probably wants to be more involved than I'd like... But, everything is for the future. I'm like.. hELLOOO. We need to give ppl the heads up. Especially with a 110 person invite list. :0(
Problem is we are house hunting too. So he's all about that right now.
He's in bed showing me houses , I'm in bed showing him linen colors . Haaaa
Ooohhh right!! I see : ) So just keep reminding him that it was his idea to do this is the first place so if he wants His wedding to be how He wants it then things need to get done! HAHA Just tell him that I am having an October 2014 wedding and I am sending my STDs out soooon! Actually tell him it was my FI's idea! hahahah We are going on Vacation next month.. so that is all he wants to talk about... it was his idea to go and it is a short term goal. So I know exactly how you feel! Men are dumb HAHAH

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