Hey Kassi -
I just kicked off my wedding planning for February 2014. As with many people on this site, I've had trouble getting in touch with the resort. This is fine for now, but I'm concerned that I may not be interpreting the package prices right. Did the resort ever send you a detailed cost statement before your wedding that let you know what the bottom cost of each event? How soon in advance did you receive that? I'm planning a wedding for 75 people so I'm concerned about what's included, what's not, etc. I don't want to be surprised too late in the process.
Thanks in advance for your help! You sound like an expert on this stuff. Also if you have any details you're willing to send me, my email is firstname.lastname@example.org