Originally Posted by DinaQtobe
Well, in all honesty there isn't much more to do! Send out invites (STD's went out in March), get FI's suit, find wedding shoes. Everything else is just a bonus to do or have for the big day. My MIL-to-be has asked my FI if she can "help" with anything and I have no idea what to say... I think I have everything under control. I think she is feeling left out, but I don't know what to have her do. (ESPECIALLY because she might not even be coming to the wedding!)
The same thing is happening with my FMIL. I let her know when we've made a decision on something but there's this long stretch where we don't have to decide on anything. She's extremely sweet and although can't help out financially, she told me that she'll help me all week while we're there and the day of to do wedding stuff. I haven't told her yet that the wedding coordinator and staff do all of it for you. I just said Thank you and once we're there she'll find out that she has all this time to actually relax and have fun.