First of all, Juliboley - your dress is BEAUTIFUL!!
Secondly, I am having a hard time deciding on a veil as well. My mom really wants me to wear one so she bought one (see bottom picture) but I don't want it all over the place during the ceremony. I also just don't think I look that great with a veil on (maybe we bought the wrong kind or I just don't have a good hair style).
With my hair down and I think a shorter veil (I went on two different occasions to try on the dress):
w/ hair up (def. don't like this). This is the actual veil that I now own: