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So, I got some really bad news....

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I am so sorry to hear this. I don't have any advice for you but like the other girls said, miracle babies are born all the time! I'll say a prayer for you and Amos and wish you the best.

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I'm so sorry. I'm sure your not the only one who has this or has come through this situation, there are alternatives out there... this doensn't mean the end of your dreams. If doctors can get a 60 year old woman pregnant, I'm sure as hell that they can help you.

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On top of being so very sorry for you, I just want to say that I think the best thing to do right now is take a deep breath and try to stay calm. I am sure once your tests are totally done, your doctor will sit with you and talk through your options. I personally know 2 women who have beautiful babies that they were never suppose to have because doctors told them they couldnt get pregnant.

 

I don't know a lot about your situation, but I believe that staying positive can only help you...

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On top of being so very sorry for you, I just want to say that I think the best thing to do right now is take a deep breath and try to stay calm. I am sure once your tests are totally done, your doctor will sit with you and talk through your options. I personally know 2 women who have beautiful babies that they were never suppose to have because doctors told them they couldnt get pregnant.

I don't know a lot about your situation, but I believe that staying positive can only help you...
thank you, and I really am trying it is just very upsetting to here, especially when I am less than 2 months away from getting married.... but I get the test results back tomorrow that I had today, so we will see....

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Shelley, I don't know what to say. I know nothing at all about this topic, its crazy because all women just assume they can have babies and then they try and nothing. At least you are finding this out before you started trying, now it will not be years of trying before you figure it out and know what to do. I say do a lot of research, as much as possible and talk to different doctors. There has to be something they can do about it, I am doubting its impossible for you to have a baby. So, take a deep breath, try to relax and when it all sinks in, start searching for options. There has to be options for you. I really believe that you will have a baby, you just need to figure out how.

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Damn. I'm so sorry you are bummed right now. I wish there was something we could do to keep your mind busy and off thinking about it. I do fully believe however that where there is a will there is a way. I think there are so so many scientific advances out there that it is definately not time to lose hope. I think the best thing is to arm yourself with as much information as possible from your Doctors...not necessarily online info. It's so easy to self diagnose and read into symptoms, etc. when you are already feeling upset. Trust that the doctors will give you the best information and they will guide you how to make this better. I also think you will feel so much better when you talk with Amos about it. Holding it back is only adding to your stress. He will be able to hurt and worry with you....and two minds and hearts are better than one! I hope you feel better very very soon! hug2.gif

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Damn. I'm so sorry you are bummed right now. I wish there was something we could do to keep your mind busy and off thinking about it. I do fully believe however that where there is a will there is a way. I think there are so so many scientific advances out there that it is definately not time to lose hope. I think the best thing is to arm yourself with as much information as possible from your Doctors...not necessarily online info. It's so easy to self diagnose and read into symptoms, etc. when you are already feeling upset. Trust that the doctors will give you the best information and they will guide you how to make this better. I also think you will feel so much better when you talk with Amos about it. Holding it back is only adding to your stress. He will be able to hurt and worry with you....and two minds and hearts are better than one! I hope you feel better very very soon! hug2.gif
oh, I have talked with Amos about it, he knows every detail, I didn't mean for it to sound like I was holding anything back from him, because I tell him everything.... I just haven't told anyone besides him, except now, you girls..

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thank you, and I really am trying it is just very upsetting to here, especially when I am less than 2 months away from getting married.... but I get the test results back tomorrow that I had today, so we will see....
I can only imagine what you are feeling right now, it's such a nightmare especially right before your wedding. I will pray for you to hear good news. In the mean time, try to focus on the good that is going on in your life right now

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