Originally Posted by ornxoxo
For the brides that send the STDs to everyone, how did you decide to send the invites to after that? Do you do RSVP for STD and another one for the invite and another one for the AHR? It seems like there's a lot of RSVPs.
I was thinking of sending the STDs to everyone as well while asking everyone to send us their mailing addresses. Then we would send the invites for those who responded to us with their addresses and assume those who don't respond are not interested to attend. With the invites, it will have RSVP for both the wedding and AHR. What do you think? Does it seem too complicated? If I do AHR RSVP at the time of wedding RSVP, would it be too far away?
I think that seems like a good solution. We sent out STDs with no RSVP to everyone, and are sending formal invitations with multiple items on one RSVP card (our resort is not AI, and we're doing a Fri night happy hour and dinner, sat wedding/reception, sun champagne brunch so we need head counts on everything). I don't see any reason you couldn't include AHR RSVP on the same card.