Hi ladies! I'm hoping I can get some feedback on my dilemma regarding our bridal party. My FI and I have decided which of our friends will be a part of our party, but I'm having a problem with my family members. It would be two men & two women, along with their kids [3 in total]. They are both on very tight budgets, so I know they're doing whatever they can to be sure they can make it to our DW. As much as we want them to be a part of our bridal party, I feel almost selfish for asking them to be in it. I know how tight money is these days, so I feel even if it's a bit more money, I shouldn't or can't expect them to cough it up. My friends have told me it would be best to sit down & tell them what's on our mind and see what they say- But I feel they might have a hard time saying no, even if it becomes a financial burden. My last option would be to just have the kids in it, and I think they'd still feel honored their children are a part of it.