After reading what you guys have done, I feel I am definitely behind! Nothing I can't catch up to, but we don't have near as much set in stone.
Working on invitations at the moment. Trying to decide if they need to go out before or after the holidays. We did send out STDs, so it's not a surprise to anyone that the wedding is coming up, but I feel icky reminding people right before Christmas of another thing they need to spend money on. Worse might be getting the invitation in January, though, when those bills from Christmas are coming in! Guess I'll be sending them out very soon. Not sure when to make my RSVP date.