Hey Candace, my suggestion would be to find someone outside of your family who is willing to travel. Can't be too careful about photo quality, and you probably want your family to enjoy themselves instead of worrying about photos.
My husband and I are pro wedding photographers. We actually have a special on destination weddings for anyone who books with us in 2012. For accomodations + travel we will photograph you guys all day on the wedding day, do an engagement session a few days before if there is time, and do a Day After session.
Feel free to message me if you are interested