I, like you, read through everything on here and am actually getting married 2/7/14! How was the site visit? My fianc© and I really wanted to do one, but wouldn't be able to do it until the early fall due to our work schedules and we needed to send the Save the Dates before that. He still wanted to do it, but I told him I didn't see the point, if we hated it we couldn't cancel our wedding after people had flights and rooms booked!
We are also getting married on Feb 7th 2014, I was planning on doing a site visit in maybe October but my hubby to be feels the same...then I showed him the reimburse the rooms - doing a visit allows you to meet your coordinator & make sure everything is to your liking and if not you can change it and the have a few months to work it out...maybe you and me should go together ...leave the boys behind lol
. Can I ask did you get your contract etc.yet? I am still awaiting Ana to send it to me before I send my Save the dates in case something isn't correct with date and location- as I had to battle them a bit on it:)