Posted 03 October 2012 - 08:25 AM
2.14.14 I can not wait to marry my very best friend ... Again!
Posted 03 October 2012 - 09:49 AM
Go with your gut it sounds to me reading that paragraph that you have already made your choice and are having a hard time telling the other one that it isnt them! Good friends will be good friends no matter who you chose and maybe this is a time where you will find out who your good friends are!
Posted 03 October 2012 - 11:29 AM
Originally Posted by Ty Roane
I am so sad that you are facing this. I would just forgo having a MOH. Keep everyone as BM, but ultimately, if you want a certain person, do what you want. It is your day! Not Trina's. Remind her that she had her dream day and now it is your turn. Thank her for being so helpful, but in the end it is about you and your FI. And just explain the groomsman thing...and agin rference her wedding...See how the shoe feels on the other foot!
It's funny that you say that and referencing her wedding because she didn't invite my fiance or child. She at first said it was a guest list thing and then I found out it was because she doesn't like my FI.
Posted 03 October 2012 - 11:34 AM
Tanks for your advice ladies, it has been hard and gets worse all the time. Trina and Amber both argue with me about the reason they should be a moh, even though I have said that I want them all to be a bm so it's fair. They both say it's stupid that I won't choose one and that I have to pick, I am really hating this whole thing more and more. Erin is the only one who tells me it's our day and that what matters and that I should do what I want.
Posted 12 October 2012 - 05:08 PM
Posted 22 October 2012 - 08:39 AM
I decided to not have a MOH but they still argue with me about it and still say that I can't do it this way and that I have to choose.
Posted 22 October 2012 - 10:14 AM
Seriously - they tell you that you CAN'T do it that way? You can do whatever you want - it is YOUR wedding! I'm sorry you are dealing with such nonsense, I really feel for you!
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