Ours is opposite, majority of our guest are my friends and family, no one from his side. It was supposed to be his brother & cousin as his bestmen, yet as of today they have yet to apply for passports (no sweat from me, idc). Trust me when I say I believe you, we spent money on STD for our Florida wedding. We paid a deposit last August for the villas in Jamaica, lost that. Paid a deposit for the golf course in Florida, lost that
Originally Posted by zbwedding
We have 16 total as well... majority of his family. I wish I didnt have any regrets, but I do regret not elolping. The money alone saved from the expense of invitations could have been used on an excursion for us. Call that selfish, and no doubt my invitations were gorgeous, but what a waste!!! Ugh. I'm with you, no tears... it's YOUR day!