I think we all feel this pain. I thought I had come to terms with it, but no, I have not! "Friends" tell me they can't go but will still do their yearly vacations they do every year. I have a friend that I originally was ok with her not coming and now she is planning a trip to Chile. Another said she can't go, but is going to FL the same time as my wedding! Kind of a smack in the face-"your wedding isn't important enough for me to go to or save for" That's actually how I feel about all my "friends". This process has made me realize just how few friends I really have.
And to top it off, I had another friend tell me I shouldn't do my bach. party in the mountains (an 1 1/2 away) as no one will go and that I should consider doing it in Denver. Why, I ask? I would consider that option if even 1 friend was going to my wedding. But they are not and I am not into clubbing downtown anymore. So..... why do something you want to do over what I want to do???? I have been in 10 weddings and NOT ONCE ever told the bride to be what she could and couldn't do for her bach. party.! So rude!
I really don't know why people think they are entitled to even ONE opinion when it comes to your wedding, especially if they aren't coming! Keep the opinions to yourself, I say! Thank you very much!!!!
AAAHHH! Thanks, obviously needed to vent very badly!!!
On a brighter note, at least my immediate family is going to be there! They like me! HAHAHAHA!
Big hugs ladies!!! Hang in there!!!!