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I did, I wanted my single friends to know that they are being invited with a guest. I think for a DW, it's very helpful for your guests to know for when they start their planning.

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if single then definitely guest, but if they are dating someone I prefer to use their name... I have been with FI for 8 years now, and I really don't appreciate getting guest in the mail.... just me though

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I agree. I only used guest if they were single, but if they had a b/f or g/f that we knew, I used their name. It backfired on one occasion though. One of Matt's friends had been with his girlfriend for like 6 years and they broke up right after the std's went out. But I think Shelly is right, when the couple is established, it is kind of annoying not to have your name on things.

 

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if single then definitely guest, but if they are dating someone I prefer to use their name... I have been with FI for 8 years now, and I really don't appreciate getting guest in the mail.... just me though

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I did, just because we wanted out single friends to know they could bring a guest...
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if single then definitely guest, but if they are dating someone I prefer to use their name... I have been with FI for 8 years now, and I really don't appreciate getting guest in the mail.... just me though
ditto. i put the person's name if they were in a somewhat serious relationship. if i knew they were just dating someone, i put "and guest." in some cases, mostly for the single fellas, i let them know that they were more than welcome to bring someone, but didnt' want to put "and guest" - because then the girl sees that and expects to be invited! lol

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I didn't write "& guest" on our save the dates. I did put the significant other's name if they were dating someone but if single I just listed their name. I will put "& guest" on the invites.

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