Originally Posted by Scarma
We are going through the same thing!! Except our is someone we know and i used to work with and to make it worse, she found out she has cancer again and need Chemo. We asked her face to face if this is still something she wants to do and she yes but so many things have gone wrong and my guests are freaking out cause they have not heard from her and deposits are due March 1st. Im stressing out so much! What should l i do?
Does this TA work for a specific company? IE: an office where there may be other agents that can help out? If so, I would contact the actual office and see if there can be some additional help... As someone that treats cancer patients, I have seen many patients sail through treatments, while others have a very hard time. It is possible that your TA will be able to handle it all - or she might not.
If you know her personally, you could always make a nice meal and bring it over to her house. Check in on her and see how she is doing. She will appreciate that you thought of her in that light. While you are there sincerely ask her if she thinks she will be ok to handle the wedding. Tell her that you definitely understand either way what her decision is. It's a delicate matter, but I think if you go into it thinking of her it will all work out.