Thanks for the input canadiangirl!
I'm kinda with you on not wanting to miss out on any part of the wedding experience (I mean I only plan on doing it once). The family members that are coming can be a little uptight so I don't want anyone to feel forced to hang around after the dinner if we're playing music when they'd rather go back to their rooms. I feel torn because I want to do the first dance, etc., but know that my fiance as well as others won't really be into it.
Is there a back-up plan if you put on music and people won't dance?
Originally Posted by canadiangirl
were only having 15 total, as of right now. were getting married in jamaica, having a cocktail hr, then a reception. My thought was even though its a small group i didnt want not to have the whole wedding experience, so we have oppted to do the DJ..think of the pics you can have lol my advice is do what you want, if its a DJ/photographer/OOT bags/favors etc...then do it!
Im treating our wedding as if it were 100 ppl coming, i just dont want any regrets or should haves. I know im not much help but thought id tell you what we were doing. if you want anything let me know and CONGRATS