Another thought would be to give the first dance to my dad, and have my step-dad do the "father of the bride" speach b/c he's a great speaker, and is essentially hosting the wedding.
What do you think? Any other suggestions?
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| Originally Posted by mexico2007 |
Oh my God welcome to my nightmare! I am in the same situation. My father (biological father) and I have just recently in the past few years have become closer. My stepfather has been in my life since I was about 4 years old. I have always concidered my step fater to be my real father.
I had always dreamed of having both fathers walk me down the aisle and split the father daughter dance in half-each father having their turn. Also both fathers would be giving a speech.
Up until a few weeks ago that was all fine-until my stepfather flat out told me he was upset about me having both of them walk me down the aisle. To make matters worse my stepmother went off on me crying saying that my father better be walking me down the aisle-also being on the left hand side of me. Also that he better be the first to dance with me for the father/daughter dance. Nightmare!! How do you chose?? You dont want to hurt anyones feelings or make anyone think that you're chosing one over the other.
I completly understand what you're going through.
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