Originally Posted by Dazeydawl
I know this thread is about bridesmaids gifts but I noticed Agm mentioned buying for her flower girl
Is it customary to buy a gift for the flower girl and ring bearer? If so what are you ladies planning on getting them?
I'm a little torn as I would like to buy for them as they are part of the wedding party but they are 2 of the 4 children there, the other two being their brothers. All four kids are between 4-7. I feel if I buy for the ring bearer and flower girl I have to buy for the other two as well or they will be upset.
I'm not sure - I think a small gift is common but I don't think you have to. I put FI in charge of ring bearer gifts because they're his cousins and I have zero ideas. I also got the flower girl and ring bearers t shirts from vistaprint - you could just do something like that? And I'll put some extra stuff in their welcome bags, too. I think maybe the t shirt idea is a good one - it will say flower girl/ ring bearer so it won't feel like you're leaving the other kids out by just getting a general gift that way maybe?