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#1 mandys

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    Posted 10 March 2011 - 05:07 PM

    I would just like your thoughts on a money shower. Me and my fiancee are moving in together about 9 months before our wedding, so we will have most of the stuff that we need. I just dont think its fair, that I have gone to dozens of showers, and then not have one myself?? A money shower would make most sense for us. What do you all think?


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    #2 BeachBridein11

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      Posted 11 March 2011 - 05:24 AM

      I strongly suggest NOT to have a money shower.  Asking for money is always in poor taste.  Sorry...


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      #3 mandys

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        Posted 11 March 2011 - 09:33 AM

        Thanks for your thoughts - I appreciate it.....the only reason I have considered it is because I have been to a money shower myself. I have thought of just not throwing anything but I keep getting invited to showers, stag and does etc. and have spent so much on people. I am torn.


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        #4 soon2bmrspierce

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          Posted 11 March 2011 - 09:54 AM

          My fiance' and i live together already in a house and pretty much have everything.I think you should def still have a shower,it's always nice to get new stuff.You could always put the stuff away and break it out at later date.I've never been to a money shower.Maybe give people the option, 



          #5 katieandaron

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            Posted 11 March 2011 - 10:01 AM

            Could you have a something else kind of shower?  A wine shower?  A stock-our-liquor cabinet shower?  A lingerie shower? 

             

            On the other hand, I think you could come up with stuff you want- new linens, seasonal items (holiday platters, etc.), tupperware...

             

            I agree with the previous poster- I think a "money shower" is a bad idea.



            #6 mandys

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              Posted 11 March 2011 - 11:02 AM

              Ok. Looks like its a bad idea.....Either I will find items to put on the registry (you are right, you can always use new things) or I just wont do anything at all.  I wasnt going to have a shower at all until some of my family told me I should. 


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              #7 deannamarie85

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                Posted 11 March 2011 - 01:12 PM



                Originally Posted by mandys 

                Ok. Looks like its a bad idea.....Either I will find items to put on the registry (you are right, you can always use new things) or I just wont do anything at all.  I wasnt going to have a shower at all until some of my family told me I should. 



                I just think it implies that you only want money from guests, which can seem a little harsh. If you have a bridal shower then guests can choose to either buy you a gift or money.



                #8 CanadianLindsey

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                  Posted 11 March 2011 - 01:33 PM

                  Showers are always such a touchy subject...although I have been to and hosted a lot of them, I still don't like the underlying notion of having a party just to get gifts.  Some traditions should be left in the past! Lol!



                  #9 mandys

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                    Posted 12 March 2011 - 11:47 AM

                    CanadianLindsey, I totally agree with you. I am not personally a big fan of the whole shower idea especially if you dont particularly need the help. If it were up to me I wouldnt have one. If I do have one though, I will definitely choose gifts on a registry. Thanks for all your thoughts and opinions!


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                    #10 snanderson

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                      Posted 12 March 2011 - 01:44 PM

                      Or maybe you could have a shower and include a "cute" little note that kindly explains your situation (i.e. that you are already in an established household) and suggest "if a gift is a must, we prefer gift cards or financial donations to help us with our new union."..just an idea! Not sure if the wording makes sense, was trying to recap what I have recently read on a wedding invitation and it was worded in good taste. Again...just an idea!


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