You're right, if she was still interested and participating in my wedding then maybe i wouldnt be as annoyed in this situation.
As much as i agree and would like to express my feelings (in a non judgemental and gentle way) My sister is unfortuantely the type of person who over reacts to everything and would likely freak out and turn the tables on me. She is a drama queen <---- that my friends is an understatement. LOL dont get me wrong....My sister has a lot of great qualities and is a very loving person and i love her dearly but she doesnt think before she speaks or acts and is a little bit selfish. She creates her own drama. I think either way though, so i can enjoy my wedding planning and get on with it I will have to take my chances and tell her how I feel anyways.
Thanks for your comments and opinion. Its nice to get outside perspectives because its nice to know you arent reacting throguh emotionally crowded feelings
Originally Posted by clgriffi7
I would be upset about this. My recommendation would be to tell her that you are sad (not mad!)that as your MOH she hasn't been participating in your wedding planning. I would tell her that you understand she is quite busy planning her wedding in such a short period of time (don't tell her your assumption is that she is jealous and rushing to the altar)...but that you hope she can participate more after she is married.
If you two were otherwise close, then I think she needs to know she has made you upset by ignoring your wedding. I dont' think it will do any good to teel her your hypothesis on the timing of her wedding - as that likely wouldn't bother you if she were still participating fully and was excited about your wedding.