Father Daughter Dance!

[sgreen99]

Oooh good call on Landslide!

[Speckles121]

I have a question regarding this.. I have a dad and a stepdad..Im very close with my stepdad but I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings. I am having my brother walk me down the aisle so it doesnt cause any friction between my dad and stepdad..but when it comes to the whole father/daughter dance..whats everyones thoughts?? Do 2 seperate songs? And if i do that, who do I dance with first? Don't do it at all? SOoo much to think about!!

[sgreen99]

I actually have something quite similar.  I actually asked my dad's permission to "share" the aisle walk.  <My stepdad will be escorting me to the end of the isle, and then my dad will walk me the isle and give me away.  My stepdad only had boys so I knew this would mean a lot to him.

 

As for dances, my plan is to do the traditional father/ daughter dance (and FH with his mom), and then do a second dance for me & stepdad, and then FH will either dance with my mom or his sister.  I think it will work well, and make sure everyone is included.  It's not like you're on a tight schedule, I would take the extra three minutes to play a different song.  But, out of respect I believe you dad should go first for the dancing
 

Originally Posted by Speckles121 

I have a question regarding this.. I have a dad and a stepdad..Im very close with my stepdad but I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings. I am having my brother walk me down the aisle so it doesnt cause any friction between my dad and stepdad..but when it comes to the whole father/daughter dance..whats everyones thoughts?? Do 2 seperate songs? And if i do that, who do I dance with first? Don't do it at all? SOoo much to think about!!

 

[Speckles121]

I like that you are including both of them "walking you down the aisle". Im the only girl for both of them so I want to make sure they are included.

I'll def do the traditional dances now too i think. Thanks sooo much for your help!!
 

Originally Posted by sgreen99 

I actually have something quite similar.  I actually asked my dad's permission to "share" the aisle walk.  <My stepdad will be escorting me to the end of the isle, and then my dad will walk me the isle and give me away.  My stepdad only had boys so I knew this would mean a lot to him.

 

As for dances, my plan is to do the traditional father/ daughter dance (and FH with his mom), and then do a second dance for me & stepdad, and then FH will either dance with my mom or his sister.  I think it will work well, and make sure everyone is included.  It's not like you're on a tight schedule, I would take the extra three minutes to play a different song.  But, out of respect I believe you dad should go first for the dancing
 

 

 

[sgreen99]

Anytime!  Man, I am a PRO at keeping the divorced parents happy, LOL
 

Originally Posted by Speckles121 

I like that you are including both of them "walking you down the aisle". Im the only girl for both of them so I want to make sure they are included.

I'll def do the traditional dances now too i think. Thanks sooo much for your help!!
 

 

 

[stefkva]

thanks for the list!