Is anyone else having issues with people either inviting themselves, or guests inviting other people? We've had two couples invite themselves. Then, a friend of mine apparently doesn't think our crew will be fun-worth enough (or binge drinkers enough) so he is inviting people to go to Mexico (people I don't even like!) I had my party days and while I still like to have an occasional drunken night, I am pretty much over that part. Our group is mostly like that but the guys will definitely let loose and party it up. The people this guy wants to invite are out all the time, and the one guy is a Bleephole. Then, last night while at a friends house, I meet a couple for the first time, and one of our wedding guests is telling her that her and her husband should come. I'm like really? I know Mexico is a free place for people to go, but this is our wedding celebration, not just a vacation!
I'm really starting to feel like my wedding day is going to be overshadowed by a crazy drunken vacation for most. It makes me very sad. Every bride wants her day to be about her. I hope it still will be. FI says the guests will be respectful that day, but ugh.
Sorry, just needed to vent. Thanks for listening girls. Sometimes this forum is the only place I feel anyone understands anything I'm going through.