Hey girls!! Ok, so maybe I'm a little emotional because its about my time of the month..but I got really upset tonight over maybe the littlest thing. Tonight we were laying in bed and I brought up to my FI about him needing to set aside time to go register for some things with me. Right away he rolled over and said his good night and I was like "This isn't all just for me, its for you too. It's for us." His reply is that "it IS all for you" (meaning me) -- and that was that. Now i'm up out of bed because I can't sleep because I'm really bummed about the fact that he really hasn't helped me with anything so far. While on some level I feel like some brides would be THRILLED that their FI doesn't "care" about what colors you pick or what centerpiece you want or what pans you want to register for, I really DO care and I really DO want him to be involved. Am I alone here!?
I have no doubt that this has absolutely no reflection on how he feels about me or the wedding, I KNOW he wants to marry me and I know he's excited about the wedding, he just has no opinions about anything relating to it. His words to me on multiple occasions -- "I just want to show up..."
Maybe I should stop worrying or caring so much, but its hard for me! I just want everything to be perfect for us but he doesn't want to help with anything! (