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Welcome Yuri!  

 

And Beach and See, I'm in the same boat too.  I just want 1 person to put their deposit  down.  Just one, is that asking too much?  Granted our wedding is still 14 months away, I NEED one person besides FI and myself to book so that I feel that all this work I've been doing is worth it.  Otherwise I've wasted time and money caring about the people who *might* be going. :(  Sorry for my freak out it's just everyone was so gung ho about the wedding and now it's like where are all my peeps at?

 

I know it's so easy to worry, but don't! I worried myself too, and wouldn't you know I still have a couple of people booking now?! Everyone was supposed to be booked by December! I have 55 days until my wedding, and finally have 25 rooms booked & paid for & 60 people going including FI and I. So, I'm sure it will all work out. I just don't know why people choose to book so close to the wedding?!

 

 

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I know it's so easy to worry, but don't! I worried myself too, and wouldn't you know I still have a couple of people booking now?! Everyone was supposed to be booked by December! I have 55 days until my wedding, and finally have 25 rooms booked & paid for & 60 people going including FI and I. So, I'm sure it will all work out. I just don't know why people choose to book so close to the wedding?!

 

 

 

 

I just don't get it. I NEED to know who is going asap because I cannot fully plan my dinner reception without that info! It makes me want to stab someone!! LOL! girl_werewolf.gif

 

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So.....do I just let it go or do I nag nag nag?

 

I don't want my wedding to feel like someone is buying a used car, but I also just want to feel like I'm having a wedding.  Tom and I had to put the deposit down on the room block which is also a stresser but not so bad because we know we have to pay that money anyway for our own room.

 

Once my TA emails and says guess what?  First deposit received I have a feeling it will start to feel real again.  Just right now, it feels like it is happening around me and not necessarily to me.  I feel like my dad is going to yell at me the next time I call him to say Hey what's up.

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Ok.... another thing to vent about. I had a dress fitting yesterday and tried it on again today. I hate my dress on my body! I just got done balling on the fone to FI. I'm PMSing too so that doesn't help anything (TMI). I'm such a procrastinating bride....this is what i get for waiting so long. I'm hoping and praying that I can get it altered somehow to look half way decent....

 

The moral of the story other brides.... DO NOT PROCRASTINATE! msncry.gif

 

I swear my next post will be positive. Sorry for being so negative all the time!

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I'm sorry to hear that you're not happy right now with your dress, but what about the dress makes it not flatter your body?  What type of dress did you get?  I say take a deep breath and just know you will look fantastic on your wedding day! :)

 

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Ok.... another thing to vent about. I had a dress fitting yesterday and tried it on again today. I hate my dress on my body! I just got done balling on the fone to FI. I'm PMSing too so that doesn't help anything (TMI). I'm such a procrastinating bride....this is what i get for waiting so long. I'm hoping and praying that I can get it altered somehow to look half way decent....

 

The moral of the story other brides.... DO NOT PROCRASTINATE! msncry.gif

 

I swear my next post will be positive. Sorry for being so negative all the time!



 

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Since your wedding is over a year away, I hate to say it, but I say let it go for right now. I don't even think your guest can book flights right now, so that might be a reason why no1 is worried about booking their rooms.  People will book, don't worry!

 

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So.....do I just let it go or do I nag nag nag?

 

I don't want my wedding to feel like someone is buying a used car, but I also just want to feel like I'm having a wedding.  Tom and I had to put the deposit down on the room block which is also a stresser but not so bad because we know we have to pay that money anyway for our own room.

 

Once my TA emails and says guess what?  First deposit received I have a feeling it will start to feel real again.  Just right now, it feels like it is happening around me and not necessarily to me.  I feel like my dad is going to yell at me the next time I call him to say Hey what's up.



 

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See, I'm sorry that you are not happy with your dress :( That's not happy at all.

 

and Beach, I know I shouldn't be worrying yet.  Like I said it's the irrational fear plus FI and I put the deposit down for each of the rooms we are holding because people told us they would book in the next 30 days.  I know it'll work out eventually, but since I don't have anything else occupying my time that irrational thought just keeps popping in my head.

 

I think I need a project.

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Ok.... another thing to vent about. I had a dress fitting yesterday and tried it on again today. I hate my dress on my body! I just got done balling on the fone to FI. I'm PMSing too so that doesn't help anything (TMI). I'm such a procrastinating bride....this is what i get for waiting so long. I'm hoping and praying that I can get it altered somehow to look half way decent....

 

The moral of the story other brides.... DO NOT PROCRASTINATE! msncry.gif

 

I swear my next post will be positive. Sorry for being so negative all the time!


I feel so bad for you- and me-- I can't even fit my dress!!
 

 

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Thanks all for "listening" to me vent. LOL!  I'm feeling better and will stay positive. I will go speak to someone about alterations this week and if worst comes to worst, i'll find an inexpensive davids bridal dress that flatters me. No sense of staying in a funk because of a dress. There are people in the world who never found their soulmate...i get  to marry mine and he wouldn't care if i was wearing a brown paper bag! love.gif

 

(don't get me wrong...i still wanna look hot! lol!)

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