So, I think I may be losing it a little bit. As you all know I don't have ANY friends coming to our wedding. Their reasoning (excuse), MONEY. Ok, so how could I be mad at that, even though not one of them tried to save, but the kicker is...I keep finding out that more and more of them are still going on their vacations this year. I told you about the "friend" that was in Costa Rica, another is going to FL in a week, another one going to FL over my wedding week, I just found out that another one is going to FL the end of this month, one friend stated he couldn't come because of money, but was just in NYC for a week and told me he was headed to Seattle for 1 1/2, but that we should get together when he gets back (all in the same breath). One told me she was going to come, but spent all her money going to Michigan!?!?
My feelings are severely hurt by these people. Why is my wedding not a vacation they want to take??? And why am I supposed to accept their reasoning for not coming and be happy that they are going on their vacations anyways?
Everyone, that I try to talk to tells me, that I should not be surprised no one is going, but my feelings are constantly being hurt every time I find out another "friend" is going somewhere else. I know you all will say the same thing, but I just had to vent, as I can't really vent to my "friends" about this. THanks!