Oh Jamie I'm so sorry to hear this!! My sister who agreed to be in the wedding pulled this crap on me too. A text saying they weren't going to be able to afford it after she committed to be a bridesmaid. Pissed me off!! Especially knowing how she and her husband spend money on drinking, season football tickets and shopping. Really you couldn't plan a year in advance. But they ended up working it out and will be in attendance. So hopefully your brothers can put aside their differences and be there for YOU their SISTER!! Silly siblings.......the can all be asses sometimes!!
I'm sorry to hear about your friends too. One thing you can count on is the people that do come to your wedding are there simply because they want to be there for you and your FI big day those people are your true friends. Don't feel foolish for that "friend" not being honest with you. It's her loss not yours!
Originally Posted by Jamie5280
Hi guys! Hope everyone had a great weekend!
Mine was oh so not that great! UUGGHHH!!! Too much never ending drama! Found out that one friend (who I thought was a good friend) that was invited to my wedding, said she couldn't afford to come to it, was in Costa Rica the past week. I found out at a baby shower on Saturday and I felt a total fool that everyone knew but me! Then that very friend e-mailed me today to end our friendship. Another friend e-mailed me and said she didn't like me putting her in the middle of that Costa Rica situation. She brought it up on Saturday and said she didn't know about it and I said it's ok if she did and that it has nothing to do with her and she insisted she didn't know and it was dropped. But again, today I got that e-mail from her asking me not to put her in the middle anymore. . I don't talk about these girls to one another, ever!!! But this means they talk at length about me together, but I have no one to talk to about the betrayal I feel. Then yesterday my older brother sent me a TEXT saying he wasn't sure he was coming to our wedding anymore. I asked him why and he told me to ask my (younger) brother! So talk about selfish. My brother isn't going because he has some problem with the other brother!? Never mind the fact the wedding has NOTHING to do with him. The older brother pulls this crap all the time too! I tried calling him, since he didn't have the decency to call me and he didn't answer. I am so frustrated and upset!!!!!! My best friend is my older sister and she won't even call me back as she is so tired of hearing about the friend drama and really hates hearing about sibling drama. So, she is annoyed with me and that is why I am here venting/crying to you guys! HA!!! I do apologize, but I am the type that has to talk it out, or it will drive me batty!!!