So My wedding is 13 months from now and I am extremely excited, Its going to be in Las Caletas, I have my resort room block, save the dates...ok basically everything going good so far. My parents, brother +wife have been so supportive of the whole DW idea. On my FI side his parents and brother+family also supportive.
Ok so now my second brother (+fam of 4) did not have the money to go. So we offered them a 3 day trip airfare paid, passports paid, and resort paid. All they need to do is show up. Now my brother who initially accepted joyously , now has rejected my offer saying it is too much money for my FI and I to pay for him.
What kills me is that we are super close and I let him know we could afford it ...but he has a pride issue & doesnt want anyone to talk about him later on in life that he couldn't afford it.
Anyhow I am trying to deal with how hurt I am by him, but I was wondering if any other bride had this type of issue where you offered to pay and they rejected. How did you deal with it?