Originally Posted by Majimart
Update: Parents and uncle have now cancelled their entire trip! This must be a blessing in disguise! I'm also getting emails about how selfish I am, and now my fiance is a "drunk" because we chose an all-inclusive resort, and I have somehow managed to squander my education in this whole process too (?!?). Apparently we've now ruined our lives completely for not inviting these strangers.
I think I am now happy they are not coming--will be less stressful this way!
This must be the first wedding that breaks up a family rather than bringing them together. It must be for the best--sometimes things like this happen for a reason.
Nevertheless, we fly on Monday! Can't wait!
Best of luck to everyone else struggling with family issues. I've learned just to "let it go."
You don't need that kinda of stress, and must be so relieved that they are not coming. Have a great wedding and vacation and enjoy all those that will be there!