I did a search and couldn't find anyone who is in the same position! This weekend my friends threw me a stagette and I received several shower type gifts. One of my other friends wants to hold an actual bridal shower for me and I couldn't tell her no since it means so much to her (long story).
1) Is it polite to send invites to the real shower to people who gave me shower-type gifts at the stagette?
2) I will be sending those people thank yous, but should I also send thank yous to everyone who attended?
3) I only requested that the people I invited to the wedding be invited to the events, I believe this is correct but am I wrong? I am second guessing everything I do in terms of etiquette!
I hope this makes sense and if someone can help me/give me their opinions I would appreciate it!!