We have been having so many things go wrong with people we I asked to be BM and MOH plus finances that I'm at the end of my rope. The final straw is that the 2nd person that I asked to be BM called tonight and said that her brother died back home so she needs to go to the funeral. No problem but then she says that if she goes then she can't go to my wedding. I have paid for her dress which was custom made to fit her plus it will need altering still and I was planning on paying for her shoes.
I'm feeling pretty down and depressed as it is because 1. my FI was in an accident on Friday 2. His family is from Jamaica so they were affected by the floods 3. my father has been giving me a lot of problems and 4. finances are tight.
So I say well, with how things are going we might not be getting married in January anyway. She say yeah, maybe you can move your wedding till June. I thought that she would offer some kind of encouragement but tell me to put off my wedding till June with it just 3 months away.
Anyway, I talked to my FI and he was very upset about her going back on her commitment to our wedding. We can't change our wedding date for one person. Problem is what am I going to do with this dress? It's custom made for her. I'm not even going to ask anyone else to be my BM. I give up on that. I'll just have a MOH. My first MOH said she couldn't come because of work and the 2nd one said that she couldn't afford it. Now, they both say they are coming.