Ok girls need some advice please!!
7 years ago myself and FI met our friends G and L (who were not together) and then around 6 years ago they became a couple. We (me and FI) have spent loads of time with them since they got together including meals out/vacations/xmas/new year etc and I have over the years become best friends with G.
As soon as we planned our wedding they were first on the invite list and I asked G to be my bridesmaid along with my cousin. But the last 6 months or so L has been treating G really bad and I have on numerous occasions had to bite my tounge to stop myself from saying something to him for his behaviour.
So, last weekend they came to blows over him being bad to her AGAIN and split up... tonight out of the blue I get a text message from him asking "Am I still invited to the wedding?"
ACK! What on earth do I reply?
Of course my priority is that my best friend is comfortable and happy, so surely the answer is no.. but its such early days even though shes adamant that they wont get back together what if they do thats going to hurt his feelings for no reason.
My FI says I cant say no as its awful being invited then not being invited and also he's our friend too (albiet not as good friend) Plus he has no job currently and hasnt for the last year and half so almost definately couldnt afford to come?
or do I take the easy option and just ignore the text ??
Please help what would you reply/do?