| Originally Posted by RaydensMama |
Deffinetly dont have your cousin in your wedding if you dnt want her there! You dont want your day to be unhappy. Either tell her you have already chosen someone else or that you do not want a BM.
Bridesmaid or not???
Posted 17 August 2007 - 10:54 AM
Posted 05 September 2007 - 08:47 AM
At the very least, do not make her a bridesmaid. For your sanity!
Posted 05 September 2007 - 09:17 AM
| Originally Posted by JenandBrendan |
Have you even sent STD's or invitations yet? If not, maybe you shouldn't invite this cousin at all. And you can just tell her you're keeping the wedding really small.
Trisha - same for you and your cousin.
Posted 06 September 2007 - 03:48 PM
If you need another good reason, tell your cousin that because you are having a small (and private) destination wedding, everyone you love most will already be there with you. You would not want more people standing with you than in the audience, right
Posted 06 September 2007 - 06:00 PM
Posted 18 February 2008 - 06:40 PM
| Originally Posted by royfa |
I have an issue! My cousin really wants to be my bridesmaid but I don't really want her there! I don't feel that close to her and she's always making my life miserable. At one point I wish she just can't come to the wedding!
I don't know how to say it to her without having my family on my back!!!!!
We are not having maid of honor or best man at all. I didn't have anyone close that was going so I told Brad that he could have his brother as a best man if he wanted to but i won't have a girl up there so he said he won't have a best man either. Which made it better for him because he has 4 brothers to chose from.
One of his brothers has a girl friend who we don't want at the wedding at all because she's a drama queen. So we told him he is invited but not her. I know it sounds bad but we are having a small wedding (8-10 people ) so it's not like she'll get lost in the crowd and I don't have to deal with her, not to mention that no one else there likes her either. I just think that it's a VERY intimate wedding and I don't need her drama and attention seeking self there. She like to cause fights with Bret (her boyfriend, Brad's brother) and it would be for no reason but for attention. I don't think she can make it anyway but just in case she thinks she can come and finds a way to have someone take care of her 3 kids we let him know that she can't come. Good thing for us is that we don't think he (her boyfriend, Brad's brother) wants her there either...LOL
All that aside I agree with what everyone else said. Tell her you are not having anyone by your side or you don't need her because you already have everything that you are doing planned already.
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