I am in the same situation as you, my FI has three kids aged 16. 13 and 11. The oldest and youngest are boys so he is having them be his co-best men (this way no feelings were hurt with his friends) and his daughter is one of my bridesmaids. We are incorporating them into the sand ceremony. I will have a color, FI will have a color and the kids will share a color ( I felt like 5 colors would be too many). This way we are representing the joining of a family
Originally Posted by lilbuddha
My fiance has 4 children ranging in ages from 16 to 12. The two middle boys will be playing the musical on their guitars. The 2 playing the guitars love the spot light while the younger two are not fans of big crowds. His daughter will be walking down the aisle as a junior bridesmaid.
I really like the idea of vows but think it may be too formal....and not sure how excited the boys will be to get a piece of jewerly. I figured during the mother son dance I will dance with each of the boys in turn....but still unsure of ceremony....any other ideas of items to give them?