I need some help!
My fiance and I planned our wedding for November 2012. We didn't get anything set in stone or majorly planned, but after talking to some people, they could not make it (my fiances best friend and my fiances younger brother) due to a work trip the same week we planned on getting married. He is very close to them and was really upset because he wanted them there. After talking to him about it, we agreed on moving it to October 2011. Everything seemed great until his other brother decided to tell us that he could not make it then, never said the reason why. I'm afraid that my fiance is going to ask me again to change it so his older brother could come. I understand that they are also close and he really would like him there, but this is our wedding and its starting to seem like we are planning it around other people. I also understand and told my fiance that some people may not be able to make it for what ever reason, but this is our wedding and special day and that we have to make the best of it. He has not said anything to me about changing it again..should I say something to him about it or just let it go and wait for him to come to me? I am a little bothered with everything that is going on. Is this unreasonable?