whatever you do, don't make the mistake I did. I picked my resort based on the people I wanted to come and tried to accommodate their budgets, which I did only to find out they decided not to come anyway. By then my FI and other guests had already put down our deposits. We could have gone to a nicer resort with more of the things we wanted but because we set aside our "wants" for the "needs of others" we lost out. I'm not overly sad about our choice of resort, there is a lot of good feedback, but there are a few other places I would have liked to consider.
The one rule that we did stick by was that both my FI and I had to agree to the resort. We never would have forced each other into a location where we both weren't happy.