Bridesmaids Dropping by the Day
Posted 10 August 2007 - 07:47 PM
One is having court issues with her boyfriends kids (they might be getting custody) so I really understand that because that is really life changing. FI's niece backed out because as most of you know hardly any of his family is going, so another one down... And now my very best friend just called to say that she can't go... I feel like crying... I am down to 2 bridesmaids.
At what point do you just say, it's not worth it anymore, and give up on your dream DW wedding...
Posted 10 August 2007 - 07:59 PM
Think of it this way - at least you still have 2. And even if all your BMs bail on you at least you will still be marrying the man of your dreams. It's hard when people you want at the wedding can't come bc it is a DW, but it doesn't mean they love you any less.
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:01 PM
personally, i'm disappointed at the amount of ppl that won't be attending my DW (these are ppl that i really thought would be there, otherwise i wouldn't care), and am thinking about an AHR - which goes against everything i've ever wanted...
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:05 PM
| Originally Posted by redwards |
I'm so sorry!!! I totally understand how upset you must be! Your wedding is coming up pretty soon isn't it? Did your friend say why she can't go?
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:10 PM
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:20 PM
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:31 PM
It doesn't matter though, and you will have your dream wedding because you are marrying your dream man. My closest cousin told me she was going until the week before the wedding when she still hadn't booked then couldn't afford it . . . yeah stupid because what would have been $700 over 8 months is now $1200 due tomorrow . . . I still haven't talked to her. My mom says she's embarassed but you know what? We're all adults and people need to be honest. I would never agree to be in a DW if I knew I couldn't swing it.
It hurts, I know, but it won't ruin your day AT ALL, trust me, you won't miss them when you see your man waiting for you!!
Posted 10 August 2007 - 08:47 PM
Whatever, you're still marrying the man of your dreams, when all is said and done; that's the most important thing!!
Proud Mama to Evelyn Eileen since June 8, 2010
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