And here I was thinking I was alone in sister problems...My sister has always been an issue, even though we have been close. Before my relationship with my FI I had more time and patience to deal with her, but now I'm just getting sick of it... My family has catered to her b/c when she is in a bad mood she is hell on wheels... But now with a FI and 3 year old son (not my biological son, and boy does she like to remind me of that!!) I don't have time to make sure the world revolves around her.. My FI invited family and friends to my 31st birthday, which he had planned to surprise me for my engagement, and she didn't show. When I told her about it I got a dry congratulations and are you sure this is what you want to do... She then reminded me of things I had said in the past about not wanting kids, not wanting to get married, etc. Well, things change!! Just bull... But she is my sister and like I said we had been close up until I started dating my FI. My previous relationship was 10 years long and we never had intentions of marrying, had problems in our relationship and would often break up for months and get back together... She also is in a similar relationship and I think she is hurt that I have gotten out of that nasty cycle and she is still stuck in it.
Anyhow, with all that said I finally decided on my wedding party, did not pick her as a MOH, but did pick her for a bridesmaid. Her response, or you''re going to have a wedding?? WTH! She accepts, comes to the first official bridal party meeting (the MOH and one other bridesmaid are colleagues so we talk all the time about the wedding) and posts on Facebook... At a bridaly party meeting and feeling left out... I shouldn't even be here!!
She then leaves the area we are meeting in and goes into the living room (not her house!) to watch tv and eats in the living room (even though the host has set up an area for us to eat in)... Mind you there are 5 bridesmaids present, my middle sister (problem sister), my baby sister, two colleagues (which she knows), and a college friend (that has only met everyone else once)... And she feels left out??? How??
I don't know what to do... My dad said not to worry with her, she has a bad attitude and I don't have to deal with it and I know my FI is going to get fed up with hearing me complain about her. He has tried everything to build a relationship with her, some days she likes him (especially if he is feeding her for free) and some days she doesn't.