I was wondering about this, too! I'm Asian, which can also be an issue with eyeliners smearing. I want something that's going to last, and there's NO WAY I can go sans-make up.
Seems like Sephora, MAC, Benefits, and Bare Minerals is the way to go for now. I actually use both MAC and Bare Minerals on a pretty regular basis. But, haven't actually gotten wet with it. So, we'll see. Keep the posts comin' ladies, I'm def going to need your help!