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#1 TheFutureWagners

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    Posted 22 July 2010 - 10:03 AM

    So in the throes of all this "wedding planning" it is often hard to take a second and remember that besides the wedding, flowers, guests, OOT bags, etc, we are entering into marriage with the person we love most in the world.

    We have had a VERY stressful last month with wedding planning and yet everytime something goes wrong, we are in it together, just him and I against the world...

    Even when we were dating and knew we wanted to get engaged, we never felt the level of devotion that we now feel when our families are giving us hell, or everything is going wrong. It is an unspoken bond between us that is now there since we got engaged.

    This whole experience has affirmed, and reaffirmed a million times over that I am marrying my best friend in the entire world, the one who will be with me through anything and everything and stand by me at all times.

    He has been amazing and I know there are so many of us that get caught up in all the wedding details we tend to overlook that wonderful man sitting across the couch from us or waking up next to us each morning.

    Girls, we are the lucky ones. To have found our life partners, and to be comitting our lives to these people that we are deeply connected with. Many people are not that lucky in life, and we are.

    Just thought I'd take a second away from the craziness...

    #2 MysTea

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      Posted 22 July 2010 - 10:12 AM

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      Originally Posted by TheFutureWagners
      So in the throes of all this "wedding planning" it is often hard to take a second and remember that besides the wedding, flowers, guests, OOT bags, etc, we are entering into marriage with the person we love most in the world.

      We have had a VERY stressful last month with wedding planning and yet everytime something goes wrong, we are in it together, just him and I against the world...

      Even when we were dating and knew we wanted to get engaged, we never felt the level of devotion that we now feel when our families are giving us hell, or everything is going wrong. It is an unspoken bond between us that is now there since we got engaged.

      This whole experience has affirmed, and reaffirmed a million times over that I am marrying my best friend in the entire world, the one who will be with me through anything and everything and stand by me at all times.

      He has been amazing and I know there are so many of us that get caught up in all the wedding details we tend to overlook that wonderful man sitting across the couch from us or waking up next to us each morning.

      Girls, we are the lucky ones. To have found our life partners, and to be comitting our lives to these people that we are deeply connected with. Many people are not that lucky in life, and we are.

      Just thought I'd take a second away from the craziness...
      (*sniffling*) I almost cried reading this one...because I was actually thinking the same thing just Today! We are the Lucky Ones and I make sure I tell My beloved as often as I can that I heart Him and they we are a team, with that being said we can conquer all....Although we are consumed in wedding stuff and life stuff, I know that I am not alone and I def. feel I am lucky to have my soulmate right by my side...looking over at me through the glare of the computer screen (im a BDW Junkie) lol.
      **Dreams Palm Beach HERE WE COME!!! 11.01.2010**

      #3 Natie1971

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        Posted 22 July 2010 - 10:13 AM

        Wow... Beautiful!!!

        #4 Mrs Price 2010

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          Posted 22 July 2010 - 10:21 AM

          Aww that's lovely!

          It's always good to take a step back from the stress and look at the bigger picture. Every time I do that it's the best feeling in the world... I'm actually going to be marrying the man of my dreams, my best friend, my rock!

          And totally agree that often it feels like it's both of you against the world, as long as you've got each other, then nothing else matters! If you can get through wedding planning stress you can get through anything!! Lol!

          #5 sarahrose

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            Posted 22 July 2010 - 01:58 PM

            It's funny because I always think, as long as I end up married to Brian, I don't care what else happens. Wedding planning really sucks so much of the time in my opinion and there are times it's so stressful that I want to call the whole thing off. Then I remember, at the end of all of this, i get to be married to the most caring and wonderful man I've ever met and it makes all this nonsense worth it.

            #6 emmag87

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              Posted 22 July 2010 - 02:05 PM

              aw that was a lovely post

              #7 debbmach

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                Posted 22 July 2010 - 09:40 PM

                I totally agree. FI and I have grown closer since the engagement and feel more connected emotionally. He's always telling me how lucky we are to have each other and how great out love for each other really is. I appreciate him and try not to let the wedding planning blind me of that (although sometimes that's hard!)
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                #8 Thomasjsgirl

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                  Posted 22 July 2010 - 09:46 PM

                  Beautiful! Print that out and read it whenever you hit a rough patch. Life and relationships aren't always easy and sometimes we forget why fell in love with that person. Something as simple as this will bring everything back into perspective. Thank you for posting that, it's something we can all appreciate at any stage of our relationship.
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                  #9 lisa203

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                    Posted 23 July 2010 - 08:04 PM

                    Wow. Very well said. It's super easy to forget what we are doing all of this for in the first place. Thanks for this.

                    #10 sunkisseddreams

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                      Posted 24 July 2010 - 01:23 AM

                      Well said... I'm in the begining stages so I'll have to remember this when things get crazy. I'm marrying my best friend, the man of my dreams... what more could I ask for?
                      Thanks for posting!
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