Jump to content

To Facebook or not to Facebook...


Recommended Posts

I made a point to wait until we told those that are close to us and felt that they should hear it from us. It was a couple weeks before I made the status change. My FI is not on facebook but I have a couple of his friends on mine and I was bugging him to get a hold of them before I changed it. But regardless you got engaged and people should be happy for you no matter how they found out

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 74
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Quote:
Originally Posted by BachataBride View Post
When I got engaged I didn't have FB! But I would definitely have waited until I told my closest friends & family before I announce it to the cyber world! You have to put yourself in their shoes...would you want to find out from FB (or worse, from someone else who say it on FB) that your best friend/close cousin/sister/etc was engaged?? Probably not!
Yep -- I'm with Manders 100%!

Try to make sure those near-and-dear to you hear it from you first before they hear it in ANY other capacity, facebook or otherwise! wink.gif
Link to comment
Share on other sites



 

Originally Posted by jerseykitten View Post

Isn't modern technology wonderful? And instead of people being happy for you, they're mad at you for how they found out!

I'm not connected to many family members on Facebook so I didn't have that kind of drama.

I took a picture of my ring with my phone and texted it to a bunch of my friends first, and then called the people that didn't text. My parents were actually out of the country and didn't find out till the next day.



Same here. My parents were out of the country (Ironically in Cabo San Lucas) and I sent my mom a picture mail of my ring. She freaked out via text msg. It was pretty funny. She was upset because my dad told her not to call from her cell phone.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Facebook status was changed IMMEDIATELY :) My FI had already told my whole family before we went away for the weekend (my mom had gone with him to get my ring made)...they all got the phone call as soon as the status was changed and for the rest of the night I got to text and check Facebook messages of congratulations...

I don't see how anyone could be upset at HOW they find out...it's fabulous news..who cares who tell who when?

What if you called someone and they didn't answer..are you then allowed to change your status or do you have to wait until you talk to everyone?

It's YOUR news..tell it however YOU want to :)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

 

 

Originally Posted by pinayflava View Post

 

i have been engaged since last October 2009 and the first thing i wanted to do was change my status on fb - but then i thought about it - there are some people i didn't want knowing etc... so i still haven't changed it but everyone that i did want to know (who were on fb) knows either through phone call or person wink.gif

 

That was my first thought too... let as many people know as possible by changing my FB status - but I made myself wait a few days so I could tell my close family and friends in person first. 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The day after we got engaged I sent my mom an email, then FI changed our relationship status.  We didn't think it was a big deal, we've been common-law for years and had originally thought it'd be a small simple wedding anyway.  But we did have some friends who were offended we didn't tell them personally.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

We waited until we had told the closest family (and a couple of friends). None of our friends were offended to find out through facebook, most of my close friends live in my home country in Europe anyway so that is how we all keep up with each other.
 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 4 weeks later...

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.



  • Best Destination Wedding Sponsors



    Facebook Pinterest Google+ Twitter
  • Posts

    • Hi everyone! I have been doing lots of research on various wedding venues all around Mexico, my fiance wants a destination wedding and I am happy to have a wedding wherever so long as the vibe is right and guests are happy!  I have been seriously looking at Cabo Azul and was trying to find potential costs for them, but only found a page about their wedding costs from 2010. Does anyone have any updated information on costs / reviews they would like to share of this venue? Or advice in general, anything helps. Thanks so much, happy wedding planning to all!
    • Hello everyone, I am dreaming of a wedding in Costa Rica and was wondering if I could get any help with venues and wedding planners. I am thinking Tamarindo because a close friend of mine lives there and I've been in town more than a couple of times, she's being helpful but is at a loss when it comes to this subject really so I was wondering if anyone here had recommendations. I am not closed to other town suggestions either, if I happen to find a good place and staff somewhere else. These are the places I have so far, has anyone had any experience with any of them?  Stay In Tamarindo Luxury Villas in Costa Rica Luxury Villas Pinilla Tropical Homes of Costa Rica The Point Luxury Villa Thank you so much for your help!
    • Have you ever considered having a wedding inside a bubble? With the current global situation, many couples are looking for unique and creative ways to celebrate their special day while keeping their guests safe. A wedding inside a bubble could provide a whimsical and intimate setting for your ceremony and reception. Imagine saying your vows surrounded by a beautiful bubble filled with twinkling lights and flowers, creating a magical atmosphere for you and your loved ones to enjoy.
    • Adult only resort or not? Let's discuss the pros and cons of choosing an adult-only resort for your honeymoon. While some couples may appreciate the peace and quiet that comes with an adults-only environment, others may prefer a more family-friendly atmosphere. What are your thoughts on this? Have you had any experiences at adult-only resorts that you'd like to share? Let's hear your opinions and recommendations!
    • When it comes to planning a wedding, one of the most exciting parts is choosing the perfect wedding favours for your guests. These small tokens of appreciation are a great way to thank your loved ones for being a part of your special day and to make them feel appreciated.
  • Topics

×
×
  • Create New...