am i being unreasonable?
Posted 18 July 2010 - 09:27 PM
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This situation happened to my friend on her weddingmoon trip, except slightly different in that my friend who got married had been tryin to get preggers for years unsucessfully then her SIL gets pregnant the whole family then move their concerntration away from their wedding and to the SIL baby.
Then they go for weddingmoon and surprise surprise SIL gets engaged on the trip - so once again stealing their thunder!
It wont only be you who thinks its not right if it does go ahead!
Posted 19 July 2010 - 08:27 AM
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Posted 19 July 2010 - 08:37 AM
| Originally Posted by Andi |
hmmm, while I totally understand where you are coming from, you have to remember that this will be their vacation too.
Will the BM and his gf have any of their family there with them? If they both are just friends of yours then I am assuming that they won't. that being said, I am sure people will congratulate them and such, as they should, but I don't see it taking away from your big day. Also as long as he doesn't doing ON your big day...it would be bad I think if for example he did it in the middle of the reception or something. As long though as he does it on a different day, I think it will be fine.
Like I said, this is their vacation too and you do have to remember that as well.
Trust me, I totally get where you are coming from but I don't see it taking anything away from your wedding. I think this same thing happened to another bride, tvt (tara). there might even be a thread on it, let me see if i can find it. same situation and in the end it was totally fine.
Posted 19 July 2010 - 08:49 AM
| Originally Posted by Lolita29 |
I don't know, me personally i don't think i would like it. Yes, your vacation. BUT, you are there for me and my wedding! Not because you decided to plan this trip just because. I guess that they want to do it after the wedding is good, but i still don't think i would be pleased. But this is just me giving me honest opinion and i'm not one that loves the attention but you better believe that for my wedding I want it to be ALL ABOUT ME!
I couldn't have said it better myself!!!!
I wouldn't care what happens after my wedding day but anytime before that it's going to be all about me and my FI!!! I'm pretty sure they would mind if it was the other way around.
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