Motivating FiancÃ© to find something to wear
Posted 16 July 2010 - 06:20 AM
We went shopping last week to find suit for OH, he wants suit trousers and waistcoat, no jacket, and possibly a coloured shirt..... hmmm not sure about that myself. anyway, we went all around the shops, department stores, etc, no-where has suits with a waiscoat this time of year, and i couldn´t even tie him down to a colour! I can´t sort out my daughters dress until he decides if he´s wearing a coloured shirt or not, cos i´d quite like us all to match!
Now he´s saying he´s going to wait til he flies back to the uk for a wedding in NOVEMBER, to buy the whole lot..... we get married in january. NO WAY; NOT HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 16 July 2010 - 07:55 AM
I'm hoping after I get my dress this fall that he will be motivated enough to get his outfit with his groomsmen.
I think men don't want to do it because we are telling them or should I say "asking" them. We need to make it out like it was their idea to go shopping and than maybe just maybe they will go with it lol
Posted 16 July 2010 - 08:24 AM
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 11:23 PM
It will all come together. For some reason it didn't all hit FI until we got 3-4 months out.
Posted 18 July 2010 - 12:42 AM
I've kind of come to the realization that I can't make him do anything. He knows our colour and we don't even HAVE a best man yet, so there's not point in rushing him so that the best man can match. They'll just do it all at the same time.
But it's nice to hear that I'm not the only one having these frustrations.
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Bride & Groom and kids + 20 booked.
Posted 18 July 2010 - 03:28 AM
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